The Discovery of a
Dominatrix.
The Realms of BDSM.
Allow me to introduce myself - Mistress Alexandra Grace (Grace of Chains).
A facilitator of obedience and indulgence,
I dominate in many ways — within the confines of My Domestic Dungeon, through video or phone sessions, or by written word via chat and email. Yet nothing compares to having you before ME in person, kneeling obediently, your eyes lowered, awaiting MY instruction at MY splendid poised feet.
Transend from the Ordinary.
Welcome to My World of Kink/Fetish & Domination.
An Introduction to Power & Control.
Step gently into the world of BDSM — a realm where curiosity is welcomed, boundaries are respected, and desire is explored through trust and consent. Whether you are completely new or quietly curious, I offer a safe, considered introduction to the art of power exchange.
Your journey may begin with soft control, sensual restraint, and teasing anticipation — a careful balance of tie and tease designed to awaken both body and mind. For those ready to explore further, my style can evolve from gentle guidance to firm correction. Discipline, structure, and corporal punishment may be introduced with precision, care, and a deep understanding of your limits.
This is more than play. It is connection, trust, and the conscious surrender of control to a Dominatrix who knows exactly how to wield it. I welcome open-minded gentlemen who wish to explore fantasies and fetishes without judgement, in a discreet and private environment where you are free to let go
Rules & Expectations
Rule No. 1 — Conduct
You are expected to approach Me with respect and clarity. Your initial message should include your name (or chosen submissive name), your experience level, and what you are seeking from a session. Polite, concise communication is essential. Time-wasters, poor manners, and casual conversation are not tolerated.
Rule No. 2 — Location
Sessions take place in My private play space, at selected tour venues across the UK, or occasionally at a local Dungeon — strictly by approval and usually following an initial meeting or verified introduction. My safety and discretion are always paramount.
Rule No. 3 — Preferences
When discussing your interests or fantasies, honesty is expected. I will always listen, however the direction of every session is ultimately Mine to decide. All sessions operate under SSC principles — Safe, Sane, and Consensual — ensuring respectful exploration within agreed limits.
Session Etiquette.
Initial Contact.
Make contact clearly and respectfully, stating your name, experience, and session intentions. Vague enquiries or time-wasting messages will not receive a response.
Booking & Confirmation.
Availability must be confirmed in advance. A holding deposit is required to secure your session. Full session details will be provided once the deposit has been received.
Preparation & Conduct.
Arrive clean, well-groomed, and prepared to follow instruction. Limits and desires should be shared honestly. Consent, discretion, and respectful behaviour are mandatory at all times.
Practices & Style
My sessions focus on power, control, and the art of surrender. Each experience is tailored to your level, interests, and boundaries, always within SSC guidelines.
Depending on suitability, sessions may include elements of:
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Domination & Discipline — rules, obedience training, punishment, and reward
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Bondage & Restraint — ropes, cuffs, positions, and containment
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Sensory Play — blindfolds, wax, temperature play, controlled stimulation
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Foot & Boot Worship — from reverent devotion to total submission
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Impact Play — spanking, paddles, crops, canes, and precision implements
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Role Play & Psychological Control — protocol, interrogation, humiliation, mind training
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Body Worship & Objectification — service, reverence, and purpose
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Tease & Denial / Chastity — control, anticipation, and mental submission
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Forced Bi / Slave Training — by approval only and within strict limits
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Double Domme Sessions — available with trusted Mistresses upon request
Every session is unique. You will never know exactly what awaits — only that it will unfold entirely under My command.
I operate strictly under Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) and Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) principles.
Chambers & Play Spaces
The Hall of Torture
Welcome to My Hall of Torture — a space where elegance meets authority and every detail serves a purpose. Sessions are primarily held in a private, domestic setting designed to feel intimate, authentic, and discreet, allowing discipline and desire to merge seamlessly.
On occasion, I also have access to a fully equipped professional dungeon, available by request for those seeking a more immersive experience.
Cleanliness and hygiene are non-negotiable. All equipment, restraints, and surfaces are sanitised to the highest standard before and after each session. My collection of tools and precision devices allows for a wide range of sensations — from controlled surrender to exquisite torment.
Whether within My private domain or a dedicated dungeon space, you enter a world where control is absolute, obedience is expected, and pleasure is found through discipline — within My Hall of Torture.
Newbies/Novice's.
For those new or curious about BDSM, it’s important to understand that it is not about pain for pain’s sake, but about trust, communication, and consensual power exchange. Every experience begins with an open discussion about boundaries, limits, desires, and safe words, ensuring you feel informed, respected, and in control of what you choose to explore. Sessions are guided at a pace that suits you, allowing curiosity to grow into confidence without pressure or expectation. BDSM can be as light or as intense as agreed, and for novices it is often a journey of self-discovery, learning how surrender, sensation, and structure can feel both empowering and deeply enjoyable when handled with care, professionalism, and mutual respect.
Availability
Monday – Sunday 10am - 8pm.
Hours vary depending on personal commitments, as this is My selective and passionate pursuit.
Tribute & Booking Details
Cash is preferred on the day.
Bank transfer to My business account is also accepted.
Boundaries Are Beautiful
I do not offer sexual or intimate services — I am a true Dominant, not a submissive fantasy.
Sessions are strictly non-sexual but always dripping in sensual tension and controlled temptation.
Please remember Domination isn't prostitution.
FAQ's & More...
General BDSM FAQs
1. Do you have showering facilities? Yes I do. You may get showered when you arrive or when the session finishes, however, bare in mind, this is not extra time. The session time will include this.
2. Do you dress to impress? Definitely! I'm also open to suggestions and I will do my best to accommodate.
3. Any hidden extra's? No. All prices are detailed above in my profile.
4. What age range do you see? Suitable for those aged 21–65. As BDSM can involve movement and physical engagement, a good level of health and mobility is required.
5. Im new to BDSM, is that ok? Absolutely. You do not need any prior experience to explore BDSM. Newbies and novices are welcome, and sessions are approached with care, communication, and respect. Everything is discussed in advance, including boundaries, limits, and safe words, so you feel informed and comfortable. Experiences can be kept gentle, educational, and at a pace that suits you, ensuring a safe and confident introduction.
6. Can i Cum more then once with in the session? This isn't general practice for sessions, If you feel close to orgasm more than once, just communicate it. I’ll decide whether to let you continue or hold. It’s important you don’t climax without permission, as control is part of the dynamic.
7. What does consent mean in BDSM? Consent in BDSM means that all activities are mutually agreed upon in advance, with clear communication about boundaries, limits, and expectations. It is informed, voluntary, and ongoing, meaning you have the right to say no, pause, or stop at any time. Consent is supported by open discussion and the use of safe words, ensuring that everyone involved feels respected, secure, and in control of their choices throughout the experience.
8. Do I need to disclose medical conditions? Yes. It is important to disclose any relevant medical conditions, injuries, medications, or health concerns before a session. This information is treated with discretion and allows the experience to be planned safely and responsibly. Being open ensures activities are adjusted appropriately, helping to protect your wellbeing and maintain a safe, consensual experience for all involved.
9. What happens during a session? During a session, activities take place within the boundaries and limits agreed in advance. You are guided professionally and at a pace that suits your comfort and experience level. Communication remains ongoing throughout, with safe words in place to pause or stop at any time. The focus is on consent, control, and mutual understanding, ensuring the experience remains safe, respectful, and aligned with what has been discussed.
10. What is the best duration for a 1st time session? For a first-time session, 60 to 90 minutes is generally considered the ideal duration. This allows enough time for discussion, settling in, and a gentle, unrushed experience without feeling overwhelming. A shorter session helps build trust, confidence, and understanding while keeping energy and focus balanced. Many people find this length perfect for an introduction, with the option to explore longer sessions once they feel more comfortable and familiar.
Session Rates.
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Custom Pricing